10 Tips to Succeed in Communicating with Women
If you want to succeed in conversations with women, you must communicate differently than the average person. The more interesting you are, the more you will attract interesting and valuable people. Here are 10 tips for communicating assertively and more successfully.
1. Be Different. Stand Out.
- Respond to her profile. For example: "You can't be serious that you're an Aries!"
- React to others. For example: "Hi there. How many boring and creepy guys messaged you today?"
- You can provoke with other words. For example: "Wow... Impressive. You surprised me."
2. Write to Many Women (and Gain Practice)
- Statistically, many women will read your message but not reply. Therefore:
- Don't be afraid of rejection and the answer "no".
- Write to many.
- Take writing as a game.
- You can approach a woman in other places besides the internet, like in a store, using the tips above.
3. Profile Photo
- Use the best photo you have.
- Add emotions to the photo, like hobbies or wearing a suit.
- Have photos with women.
- Photos with friends.
- The PHOTO should show your BEST QUALITIES!!!
- Ask your female friends which photos they like the most and choose based on that.
4. Avoid Main Mistakes
- Don't be too nice and don't show interest too soon.
- Declarations of feelings don't belong on the internet.
- Don't get attached to a girl online.
- Instead, try to meet as soon as possible.
5. Don't Lead a Boring Conversation
If a woman is bored with your messages, she won't want to meet you. Examples of boring messages:
- "How are you? What's new?"
- "How was work?"
- Only smileys.
- Closed questions with answers only "yes" or "no".
6. How to Write Entertainingly
Use open questions with words like: What? If? Why? How?
- Ask questions like:
- "What do you love?"
- "What do you enjoy the most?"
- "What places would you like to visit and why?"
- "What do you want to be when you grow up?"
- Before sending a message, ask yourself how she can respond to your message.
7. Suggesting a Meeting Too Soon
Definitely not: Pushing for a meeting.
How to do it:
- Generate interest.
- Look for signs of interest between the lines.
- Invite her to a meeting appropriately:
- Find a reason + add where, when, how + add an alternative.
- (Since you like wine, I would like to invite you to the city market. Does tomorrow evening or Wednesday suit you better?)
8. Don't Bombard with Messages
- Wait for a reply 🙂
- If you wait, your confidence grows.
- If you are impatient and send many messages without a reply, you undervalue yourself.
- If she doesn't reply, message other women.
- If she doesn't reply for a long time, you can send one more message, for example, a week later.
- Ensure balance in the amount of your and her messages.
9. Don't Focus Only on One Woman (That She's the Only One)
- Definitely don't get attached to a woman who ignores you. You'll just be disappointed.
10. Give Her the Opportunity to Initiate Contact First
The rule is not: The more you message, the sooner you'll meet. Rather, the opposite – the more you message without hinting at a meeting, the more you'll just be friends and never see each other.
11. Statistics: 9 out of 10 Women are Not Suitable for You
- Write to many women.
- Don't tie yourself to just one.
- It's good to have many female friends.
12. They Are Women
- Women are emotional, sometimes hard to understand, and occasionally unpredictable.
Main Tip:
Understand why it didn't work out. Keep learning, trying, and improving!!!